Comments on: Temptation http://myrelationshipthoughts.wordpress.com/2008/07/14/temptation/ Another blog by The Sleepless Man Mon, 13 Oct 2008 09:24:30 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Elly http://myrelationshipthoughts.wordpress.com/2008/07/14/temptation/#comment-6 Elly Sat, 16 Aug 2008 11:56:15 +0000 http://myrelationshipthoughts.wordpress.com/?p=20#comment-6 First of all I'd like to say that I really like your blog and the issues you touch. I think temptation has been and will always be important threat to even strong relationship. No matter how much you trust each other, eleminating that 1% of probable situation can be fatal First of all I’d like to say that I really like your blog and the issues you touch.
I think temptation has been and will always be important threat to even strong relationship. No matter how much you trust each other, eleminating that 1% of probable situation can be fatal

]]> By: perfectimp http://myrelationshipthoughts.wordpress.com/2008/07/14/temptation/#comment-5 perfectimp Mon, 21 Jul 2008 16:08:59 +0000 http://myrelationshipthoughts.wordpress.com/?p=20#comment-5 SM: Hope all is well. An interesting post, and to come to think of, it, the source of some of the problems I had. To be honest, that old friend I sought to hook up with again was never of a like mind with me. i thought of her as the Ms. Right, while it turned out that she was more about Mr. Right Now. Oh, there was passion involved in the moment was true for both of us... but while I had pined away for years, she had been involved in no less that 11 affairs since myself - all of which she had hidden from her husband. It also turned out she had done the same thing for a string of years before me - but which I only found out about very recently. Her divorce becomes final this morning in about 30 muntes. But the funny thing is, while she claims emotional abuse as the reason for the divorce (and even filed a TRO against her soon to be ex), her husband was just getting mad on her for cheating on him, continuously - and it turns out he was right all along. I now consider myself a very lucky man, for having dodged a bullet. Someone who has exhibited that pattern of behavior (attract someone, get into a relationship, and then move on when someone else catches their eye) would not have changed, even if they became involved with me. Now comes the hard part - I need to perform some sort of emotional exorcism to get rid of these feelings I had for her. Any ideas or suggestions on that? The Perfect Imp SM:

Hope all is well. An interesting post, and to come to think of, it, the source of some of the problems I had.

To be honest, that old friend I sought to hook up with again was never of a like mind with me. i thought of her as the Ms. Right, while it turned out that she was more about Mr. Right Now. Oh, there was passion involved in the moment was true for both of us… but while I had pined away for years, she had been involved in no less that 11 affairs since myself – all of which she had hidden from her husband. It also turned out she had done the same thing for a string of years before me – but which I only found out about very recently.

Her divorce becomes final this morning in about 30 muntes. But the funny thing is, while she claims emotional abuse as the reason for the divorce (and even filed a TRO against her soon to be ex), her husband was just getting mad on her for cheating on him, continuously – and it turns out he was right all along.

I now consider myself a very lucky man, for having dodged a bullet. Someone who has exhibited that pattern of behavior (attract someone, get into a relationship, and then move on when someone else catches their eye) would not have changed, even if they became involved with me.

Now comes the hard part – I need to perform some sort of emotional exorcism to get rid of these feelings I had for her. Any ideas or suggestions on that?

The Perfect Imp

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