Forgetting lost loves

First off I would like to apologize for how long it has been since I last posted. I got busy, then had a little bit of writers block, then was on vacation. Now that I’m back I shall continue where I left off.

A recent comment from PerfectImp has brought me to think recently about how to forget about people that you once loved. We all want to do something like this at one point in our life, however, no matter what that person has done, we usually can’t seem to find a way to do it. The best way I can figure it to just move on. It won’t be easy, but overall, if you move on to bigger and better things you will eventually forget about the person. There will be times where you will remember them, but that is part of life. My suggestion is to go out to the places that you like to go with friends. Go to the bars or pubs, go to some concerts, or wherever else it might be that you like to meet people. Eventually you will find someone that will meet your liking. Don’t be afraid to express your true self. As a radio show I listen to once said, “If you love the muppets, go out there and buy yourself a muppet shirt, and wear it. Eventually a girl will come up to you and say ‘I love that too!’ and things will go from there.” I guess what I’m trying to say with all of this is that finding another person is the best way to forget about the person you are trying to forget. You can never fully forget someone, such as your first kiss, no matter how horrible it may have been, you will never forget it. Lose track of the memory yes, but forget it, not unless you have amnesia. I hope this has helped you out, PerfectImp, even though it has been a little bit slow in response and has also been a little bit vague in what to do. The truth is that this is a hard topic to try and cover, yet it is one that most everyone will experience. I will continue to ponder this idea and come up with a better way. Until then, get out there and find yourself a person that is in your mind, better than the person you are trying to forget.

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